Snapshots from The Metropolitan Museum of Art

by Jackie D on August 25, 2014

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I never thought I’d say this about an art museum, particularly one as distinguished as this, but the Met wasn’t really at the top of my list when I moved to New York. It’s not that I didn’t want to visit – I think mostly it’s the fact that I still don’t really feel like I am in New York City, and so a lot of the big sights haven’t really been on my radar.

Also, there’s been that whole moving across the country and getting used to a new job thing to deal with.

I stopped by on a Sunday to kill some time while I was waiting for the library to open. I saw that there was an exhibit of Garry Winogrand’s photography showing at the Met and I recalled that my former boss (at the photography studio) had told me that Winogrand was his favorite photographer.

Winogrand is known for his New York street photography from the 50s and 60s, and I think my favorite photos are the ones where the subject has caught him taking his or her picture and he or she gives him the stink eye. It’s the best.

There’s also this photo of a woman laughing that I think is truly the greatest thing I have ever seen.

I’ll be visiting the Met again and again I’m sure, as it technically doesn’t cost anything (there is a suggested donation), and I probably only saw about a sixteenth of it, if even that. In the meantime I’m going to build a shrine  to that photo of that woman laughing and just worship it until someone tells me to stop.metropolitan museum of art nyc

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In one of my recent posts
I mentioned the excitement I always used to feel right before school started each autumn. Even now that I’ve been out of school for 4 years, I still seem to feel that excitement at the end of August, right before fall starts.

I don’t believe that school is the right choice for everyone. It was definitely the right choice for me — I love being in a classroom and I learn best by sitting in discussions, doing assigned reading, and writing essays. Some people work best by actually getting out there, being thrown in head first, and just sort of being let loose without any traditional schooling or training.

Luckily for me, I’ve gotten to learn both ways.


4 Years in School

I learned so much about writing and art during those 4 years. I grew up sitting on the floor in the living room drawing pictures and stapling pieces of paper together to create little “novels” (my magnum opus was a 10ish-page thriller called “Pets” — watch out JK Rowling! — although my rendition of the Easter story from the Bible was also quite notable, mostly because of how creepy it was — watch out Jesus!). When I got to college, I began to study the ways and reasons that other people made art.

I memorized dates and locations of famous paintings. I learned to distinguish Roman arches from Greek arches and how to paint with a palette knife. I took a writing workshop and learned that not everyone can hear what dialogue sounds like.

I studied art in France for a summer and stood in the chapel that Matisse designed for a few nuns who took care of him when he was sick.

I learned what Googie architecture is. I read an apocalyptic novel by Octavia Butler in one sitting and was stunned to realize that a.) the world will actually end at some point, and b.) apocalyptic novels might be my favorite genre of fiction.

I learned that essays classified as “food writing” aren’t really about food most of the time — often they are about hunger and appetite, which are often completed unrelated to food.

I learned that Milton — author of Paradise Lost — was blind and had to dictate the entire text to someone else who could write it down for him.

I learned that success is a result of hard work, and that if you want something badly enough there’s no reason you can’t get it. You just have to put in the work.


4 Years Traveling

I have now seen travel from several different sides. I’ve backpacked, interned, and studied in various different countries; I’ve been invited to Israel as a journalist; I’ve worked for a small family-owned business that leads photography/travel tours; and now I am working for a large company specializing in train travel.

I see now that hard work is only half the equation. The other half is luck. While I believe that more opportunities will open for you the more you put yourself out there, I also believe that there’s something to be said for being in the right place at the right time.

I believe that just because you travel somewhere and don’t know the language doesn’t mean you’re automatically an obnoxious American tourist. Just don’t BE obnoxious. A smile will get you pretty far, and if it doesn’t, teaching a stranger a card game when you’re stranded on a cargo ship overnight will also get you pretty far.

I learned to snorkel. I learned to fish. I learned that in order to gain as much speed as possible when you are volcano boarding, you need to fully commit to that speed or else you’ll crash really hard. I crashed really hard.

If you are traveling alone and you meet a group of friends who invite you to travel with them, say yes, even if it means changing your plans. If you have the chance to stay on a boat in Gibraltar, say yes, even if you are afraid of the ocean. If you are offered the chance to feed a little lamb from a bottle in Ireland, say yes. Say yes.

When buying a plane ticket, a train ticket, a museum ticket, a pair of shoes, a stick of gum, anything — always, always, always read the fine print. Know the rules. Know what you’re accepting responsibility for when you hand over your money.

When there is less money involved, don’t worry about the rules as much.

Perspective is everything. A twelve hour bus ride will be hellish if you believe that it is hellish. It will be hellish but also slightly funny if you keep things in perspective — it’s twelve hours of your life, get over it.

Of course there’s a risk in traveling alone when you’re a woman, but there’s a risk in living in a big city too — but no one is going to warn you against living in a big city.

When driving through a snowstorm, do not try to use your windshield wiper fluid to clear the windshield. It freezes. This one is mostly for my fellow Californians.

I think that when you’re going through a hard time, it helps to put something on the calendar that you can look forward to — for me, that always involves buying a plane ticket.

Although I’m not sure I would still get a “laugh” tattoo on my lower abdomen if you asked me about it today, I’m glad that 19 year old me decided to — I still believe that laughing is the best thing of all time and I know I will never not believe that. I think it’s funny that 19 year old Jackie decided to do that on a whim one summer afternoon in college.

This fall marks the end of these first four years out of school. I am still working in the travel industry, I have a trip scheduled for about 12 days from now, and I signed up for a mapmaking class online. Looks like the next four years (or the next few weeks in this class at least) are going to be a mixture of both school and travel — and then after those four years I’ll be turning 30, so I’m sure I’ll have a whole new crisis to deal with.

Here’s to the next four!

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The Weekly 7: August 10

by Jackie D on August 10, 2014

Thanks to my job and this blog I spend a lot of time on the Internet every week. The Weekly 7 is a list of some of the things I’m currently loving, articles I’ve read, awesome things I’ve found on Pinterest, etc, during the week. Sometimes I’ll throw in a photo or two of things I did during the 5 seconds I wasn’t actually on the Internet. Sometimes.

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1. One of my tweets made it into a Buzzfeed article! I was hanging out on Twitter on Friday afternoon and saw that people were posting puns of book titles mixed with conspiracy theories and tagging them #conspiracybooks, so naturally I wanted to participate. I threw in 2 puns, one of them being MiddleseX-Files (AMIRITE) and that one got picked to be in the resulting article on the site later that afternoon. FAME.
2. My sister is still updating her blog even though she has been evacuated from Guinea due to the Ebola outbreak. I’m just glad she’s safe!
3. My trip to Colorado Springs is coming up and in the midst of my research about the Garden of the Gods I found out that there is a hot air balloon festival taking place that weekend as well. Guys, I may never come back.
4. Took myself out to the Benefit eyebrow bar on Friday night. Girl-tastic.
5. Finished reading the new Robert Galbraith (aka JK Rowling) mystery novel, The Silkworm. Detective novels are my guilty pleasure (I took a class on them in college).
6. Really want to start investing in some art. Currently obsessed with these beachy (and entirely sold out) paintings by artist Teil Duncan and these beachy (see a theme here?) photographs by Gray Malin.
7. One of my blog posts was featured on The Culture-ist last week! It’s about Girl Scout founder Juliette Gordon Low and the Girl Scouts retweeted it which basically made my life.

Here’s hoping this next week is a good one despite the thunderstorm warnings and the fact that our apartment’s WiFi has been on and off the past three days (currently using up all the WiFi and air conditioning that Starbucks will give me).

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